Tuesday, 17 September 2013

Want to run away from home !

What I have said has came true
This is nothing but the truth
In fact, I have not lied a single word
Surprised to hear me say that? It's true.
There's no point in avoiding it, so we might as well start with it.
The most ideal wedding is definitely a dream wedding run smoothly.
Before  the marriage. you  didn't tell me to live in separate house without my parents
Before marriage, I didn't promised you to live in  separate house  without my parents
Before marriage you didn't tell me that you would be in your mothers' house after our marriage
Whatever  I  have earned which has been given to you and I do not save any money for me.


I do not ask you to bring anything from  your home as a dowry  
(A dowry is a process whereby parental property is distributed to a daughter at her marriage )         
To you , your parents are more important than our family.You do not think about the well being of my parents.
If you wish, you can bring your parents to this house which belongs to us
Bring your parents  here and I would not restrict them but I wish them to be with us in this house
But we can not come to your house to live permanently and it it  is  not natural

Men are not bad animal, as you think
Who urge men to spoil the way !
Men do not ask any dowry to marry a girl
Only women are fond of asking dowry to marry their sons
They say that they have given dowry to their daughter's marriage ,
So they want to get back that dowry for their sons' marriage
I have no sisters so my parents did not like any dowry from their daughter-in-laws
All of our reasons for action are for the sake of living well
Sometimes you have to sacrifice personal desires in order to save our family and for the sake of living well
Happy Spouse, Happy House.

'A dowry is a process whereby parental property is distributed to a daughter at her marriage'

Monday, 16 September 2013

Have You Had A Heart Trouble?

I have had the heart trouble

The doctors advised me that I need to undergo an operation to cure the disease.

I agreed to undergo the operation as the problem was giving me severe pain for days.

When the operation was completed the doctor has given a bill which covered all the costs.

After looking at the bill, I have started crying.

Upon seeing this, the doctor said,
"If the cost is too high then we could make some other arrangements for you."

I have replied to that doctor

"I am not crying because of the money for the operation cast which I have to give you  but I am crying because Allah let me save my life  for 70 years and He never sent me a bill!"

Til this time, I have not yet prayed for Him for His mercy to live me in good health. I have done a great mistake by not praying Him . I repent for that  and crying for that.

"And He gave you of all that you asked for, and if you count the blessings of Allah, never will you be able to count them…" Al Quran (14:34)

Saturday, 14 September 2013

Do not display your Mother's image

Display your Mother's image

Display the image of others wife

After seeing the picture of women with decent

Do not display  the picture of your wife and daughter in Facebook

because your family members only are in  high society

but others are not so.

It is better to be high-spirited even though one makes more mistakes, than to be narrow-minded and all too prudent.
Vincent Van Gogh

Beauty is not standing statue

I do not mind wandering
Beauty is not standing statue

Beauty is tricksy
Beauty and stop condition

Sweet heart
Beauty varies from place to place

Sexy beauty will be displayed for one
Please stop giving beauty to others

Activities beauty standing on the rise
Giving rise to the advantage of stopping beauty

Beauty is based on the increase in heart
Frozen beauty of love is a refuge

Beauty matched the increase in heart
Abode of true beauty

Depending on the nature of beauty viewer
There is no need to wander in search of beauty
Beauty and majesty of our mind is filled in

Friday, 13 September 2013

“Your smile for your brother is charity.“

The Prophet (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said, "Do not disdain a good deed, (no matter how small it may seem) even if it is your meeting with your (Muslim) brother with a cheerful face (i.e. with a smile)"
[Sahih Muslim]

What is the most beautiful smile ..
Nothing makes you smile, but ..
There are those who love to see you smiling ..
Smile

A smile costs nothing, but gives much.
It enriches those who receive,
without making poorer those who give.
It takes but a moment,
but the memory of  it sometimes lasts forever.
None is so rich or mighty
 that he can get along without it.
A smile creates happiness in the home,
fosters good will in business,
and is the countersign of friendship.

"PARADISE IS AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHERS"

 My beloved son! If you want me to have kindness towards me,do it now onwards.Otherwise you would be sad for  that you have missed the duty of showing your affection towards  me and be worried about that.

My dear son you try to show affection and kindness towards me and no use of showing after my death . No life would  come after death in this world.

My beloved son!  See my face,skin that is wrinkled, and the hair of my head has been become white and that itself shows that I am in the old age.

 I am in the bonus period of Allah, I do not know when the Zibrail would take me.


Three things is given more important as our Prophet (Sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam)  has said and one among them is "PARADISE IS AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHERS" and I hope that you know that.

Have courtesy,kindness towards me now itself and get the rewards of  ALLAH
Narrated by Al Mughira (Radiyallaahu `anhu), The Prophet (Sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam) said,
“Allah has forbidden you
(1) to be undutiful to your mothers
(2) to withhold (what you should give) or
(3) demand (what you do not deserve)

Tuesday, 9 April 2013

I have built a beautiful house

I have built a beautiful house for my family
but nobody lives in that home except my wife

My sons have gone from us  to their mother-in-law's home to live with his wife
I have  to go to foreign country to earn money. I have to return the money  which I have borrowed from my relatives to build my house
My wife is left alone in that newly built house

My wife wants her sons to return  to newly built house but it is not happened
In spite of all hardship she never curse her sons for not responding her request

My heart burns like a fire
I pore water on my head to settle that heart burning
but still it burns like a fire.

what do we benefit if we gain the whole world but lose our own soul!
 

I went to mosque to get relief from that
I pray God with tears
By the grace of Almighty I get relief from my worries

Only God can give us security.
 

It is reported that the Prophet’s last words were:

Prayer! Prayer! And fear Allah regarding those who you are in charge of.

Abū Bakr bin al-Jazā’irī states:

Among the wisdoms in the implementation of prayer is that it purifies and welcomes the worshipper to converse with  Allah and His Messenger, and, while he or she remains in the material world, brings him or her into proximity with the Divine in the next life and wards off indecency and manifest evil.